I’ve been cutting myself for a little over 3 years now. I’ve tried stopping and getting help but none of it ever works. What should I do?

I think you need to let the people closest to you know about it. There must be something bothering you that makes you do it, and sharing your feelings with loved ones with let them be aware and try to find you help or help you. I hope somehow you do stop, I don’t wish for anything to cut themselves. If you ever need to talk I’m here. <3 :/

What’s your take on online relationships? I like my best friend who’s a guy but he’s halfway around the world. Idk, I love him tbh. Even when I try to find other guys here he’s always in mind. I liked this guy here, but even another guy couldn’t take my mind out of my online friend.
Do you think it’s worth it to have an online relationship and do you believe in online relationships?

I think if you honestly feel 100% sure that he is the only person you want to be with and he feels the same way, go for it. Nothing should hold you back not even distance. If anything I thnk the distance will make you stronger if you can get through this you can get through anything. Just stay strong and remember why you’re dating him when you start to doubt yourself. Remember every reason why you like him, and how he makes you feel and you’ll be fine.

I like my best friend and he tells me about this other girl. I always tell him to go for her. He gives me all these mixed signals too and I also give him these signals as well. Our friends think we’re really sweet and stuff and they think we’re together but we’re not. I tell him about this other guy and he keeps on telling me to go for him.

Is he saying these because he doesn’t like me and doesn’t wanna mislead me or is he saying it so that I’ll be happy even if it isn’t with him?

I honestly couldn’t tell you. In that sort of situation it looks as if you’re both trying to make eachother jealous, or you don’t think you’re good enough for eachother. The only thing I can say is ask him how he feels about you. The worst he can say is, “Nothing more than a friend” then you’ll know you need to move on.

I’m new at my high school and I’ve only made like three friends, but they’re all sophomores and I’m a freshman. I have a quincesnera coming up, and I want to have an actual date (meaning a boyfriend) for a it, but it’s hard cause, as I said before, I only have three friends and none of them are guys. I’ll be extremely embarrassed if all my friends in my court have dates and I don’t have one. what should I do?

I think rushing into a relationship just for a date is a bit much. Maybe try talking to some guys that seem interesting to you and see where it goes? If you can’t find a guy to go with you then just go with your girls and have a good time. At my senior prom I didn’t even hang around my date because he wouldn’t dance so just have fun!

I’ve fallen for a senior…and I’m a freshman.

It’s not uncommon if you spend a lot of time with them. Although the law says that it’s illegal to date, I’m not quite sure how to respond. I guess do what you feel is right and maybe talk to your parents about it if he is also for it? It’s better than sneaking around and when they find out getting him in trouble for it.

In response to the penpal post:

“this is for that person who wanted a pen pal. :)
http://www.interpals.net/
I hope it helpsss!
—AllisonInterrupted”

“Tell her I’d love to be her penpal!
I, myself have been searching forever for someone to be my penpal, but have never found anything, or anyone who was willing.

I don’t know how I could get in contact with her, it’s utterly confusing, but if you like could you please send her my email?
bertjulian@live.com

(:

please and thank you!”

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